Flight 93 Biographies
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Christian Adams
Deputy director, German Wine Institute and director of its export department, 37, Biebelsheim, Rheinland-Pfalz, Germany; Wife, Silke; son, Lukas, 7; daughter, Theresa, 5; He was flying to San Francisco for a wine-tasting event to showcase the 2000 vintages.
The first time folks saw Christian Adams toting heavy cases or uncorking bottles at refined wine-tasting events, they didn't always realize that the youthful, reserved German was an important fellow.
"One of the most impressive things about Christian was his willingness to dive in and do whatever needed to be done," said Carol Sullivan, director of the German Wine Information Bureau in New York. "No job was ever beneath him."
But through hard work and skillful networking, Adams, 37, of Biebelsheim, Germany, had risen high in the world of wine production and promotion. As deputy director of the German Wine Institute and director of its export department, he was responsible for promoting one of his country's most-prized products.
"He was the hub in the wheel," said Sullivan, who represented the institute and worked closely with Adams for a dozen years. "There was no one more interested in wine."
Sullivan met Adams in 1989 at a German Wine Society convention in Los Angeles, while he was still a student working on a marketing degree at the University of California, Davis. He'd already obtained a degree in winemaking and grape-growing from a German university and was determined to build a career around wine.
"One of the things that impressed us most was his depth of knowledge," Sullivan said. Wine Institute officials were so taken by the young man that, later that year, they asked him to help with a symposium on Riesling grapes. There, he met the director of the institute, who hired him to work in its export department. He became deputy director in 1995.
Married and the father of two children, Adams also ran the Weingut Schnell winery in Biebelsheim, which was owned by the parents of his wife, Silke. He worked hard to stay in good physical shape and enjoyed playing and watching volleyball and basketball games. Although he was quiet, he enjoyed sharing a good joke with friends and colleagues.
"Representing the various interests of an entire industry can be a political minefield, but he had the respect of so many people," Sullivan said. "His success came from his thoughtful, quiet manner. He never made rash decisions and everything he did was always well-considered."
Lorraine Bay
Lorraine Grace Bay was born in Philadelphia on July 20, 1943 in the midst of World War II. She was a bright star whose presence gave family and friends something positive and beautiful to talk about during those fateful and uncertain days.
She was a typical teenager of the 1950's enjoying every moment of those growing years. Thanksgiving was always a favorite holiday at her house: football, food and loving family were the order of the day. Lorraine graduated from Neshaminy High School in 1961 where she was the Captain of the Color Guard and subsequently joined a community Senior Drum and Bugle Corps. As part of the Color Guard, she enjoyed the camaraderie for two years. Lorraine was working in the office of the Reedman Car Dealership in Langhorne, PA when the lure of the vast skies of United Airlines beckoned in 1964.
Lorraine trained at Chicago's O'Hare Airport and then began her 37 year career as a Flight Attendant. Humor was always part of Lorraine's life, even if the joke was on her. On her first short flight, her plane landed before she had even finished serving lunch. In her helpful, but inexperienced way she had taken the time to unwrap each sandwich rather than just giving it to the passenger. She soon learned to efficiently complete her tasks in the allotted time, but never lost her delightful way of always looking at life through the prism of laughter. It was always fun talking to Lorraine about her flights and the many interesting and sometimes famous people who passed through her life. Even if the trip was miserable, her stories always ended with a smile.
Lorraine and Erich Bay married in 1979 and lived in East Windsor, NJ. Their early morning work schedules had them at times passing like ships in the night, but they always took the time for each other before leaving for her flights. She was the family organizer, planning events and making sure the appropriate card for every birthday or anniversary was mailed.
She carried that ability to her professional career as well. Lorraine had style and grace that showed through in everything she did. She watched over her fellow flight attendants, making sure doctor's appointments were kept, even sending hats to friends undergoing chemotherapy. Her gifts and cards were unique, personal and always early. Two ill colleagues received cards postmarked September 11, 2001 indicating that they were mailed that fateful morning. She loved to share her experience with younger flight attendants to help them along the way and connected with passengers on every level whether young or old or traveling on business or pleasure.
There wasn't a kinder, more considerate person on the face of the earth. Lorraine had a beautiful smile, twinkling eyes and a hearty hug and her love will stay with all who knew her.
Todd Beamer
Todd Beamer was born November 24, 1968 in Flushing, Michigan to parents David and Peggy Beamer. The second of three children, Todd brought joy to his parents and sisters. When Todd was six, the family relocated to Poughkeepsie, NY. Two years later, they moved to Wheaton, Illinois where they would settle until Todd's senior year of high school.
Throughout his growing-up years, Todd excelled at athletics and enjoyed competition. He played soccer and basketball well, but baseball was his passion. After graduating from Los Gatos High School, Todd attended Fresno State with hopes of making their Division I team, but injuries sustained in a car accident kept that from happening. Todd decided to return to the Chicago area to pursue a degree at Wheaton College.
Todd met his wife Lisa while they were working towards their undergraduate degrees at Wheaton. The couple began dating after graduation and married three years later, after Todd had earned his MBA from DePaul University. The couple settled in the area of Princeton, NJ, where Todd started his career with Oracle Corporation. Though he thrived in the high-pressure corporate environment, Todd also maintained his focus on family and service to others. Together, he and Lisa were active in church, where they taught a high-school Sunday school class for years.
Todd and Lisa's first child, David, was born in 1998. Drew followed in 2000. Morgan, who carries Todd's middle name, was born in January 2002.
Alan Beaven
Environmental lawyer, 48, Oakland, California; Wife, Kimi; daughter, Sonali, 5; sons Chris, 18, John, 21; he was going to San Francisco to try a case before leaving on a sabbatical to India.
Alan Beaven did not fit the stereotype of a successful attorney. Dressed casually in his San Francisco law office, the New Zealand native shunned his computer, preferring to dot the monitor with messages on sticky notes.
He wrote briefs in longhand, a throwback to his days as a barrister in England. He preferred to keep his own filing system, which consisted of dozens of accordion folders laid out on the floor.
And he liked to get his hands dirty. When taking on oil companies or alleged polluters of California's waterways, Beaven thought nothing of rolling up his sleeves and going to the source for information, whether it was an abandoned gold mine, a hog farm, or downstream from a cement plant.
He drove an old car, allowed his hair to grow long, saved his suits for trials, refused to display his diplomas, and didn't carry a cell phone. Instead of holding forth at length in a courtroom, he enjoyed allowing his opponents to dig themselves into a hole of their own making, after which he would deliver a pithy coup de grace when his turn came to speak.
And even though he couldn't keep his office plants alive, Beaven enjoyed protecting the environment and considered suing polluters both a moral duty and an intellectual challenge.
He was so successful that the California Sportfishing Protection Alliance said he had practically worked himself out of a job.
It was just as well. Beaven, his wife, Kimi, and their daughter, Sonali, 5, were preparing for a year-long sabbatical to do volunteer work for the SYDA Foundation in Bombay.
In the last decade, Beaven had become heavily involved with Eastern philosophy, meditating, practicing yoga and spending a month in an ashram in India.
Helping to ground Beaven's spiritual center was his family. It was no surprise that he was devoted to Sonali and sons Chris, 18, and John, 21, from a previous marriage; wherever he went, Beaven acquired a fan club of children in the neighborhood.
During a typical morning in his Oakland home, Beaven would drink a cup of Twinings Earl Gray tea before being ambushed by Sonali and a heap of books that she wanted him to read before work. She would climb on his lap and they would snuggle.
"I'll never say no to a book," he would tell her.
Mark Bingham
Owner, The Bingham Group, 31, San Francisco, Calif.; mother, Alice Hoglan, father, Jerry Bingham, step-mother, Karen Bingham; after a weekend in New York City, he was returning home.
Gerald "Mark" Bingham was constantly on the move. In New York, New Orleans, San Francisco or Pamplona, Spain—he visited friends, met with clients of his public relations firm or just traveled around the world in search of good times.
His exploits were the stuff of legend among his friends. The time he dressed as a transvestite lumberjack; the hours he spent in jail for tackling the Stanford University mascot at a college football game; being thrown out of New Zealand for a bar scuffle; rescuing a small girl who had wandered into traffic.
He seemed a walking contradiction: gay, yet a staunch Republican; accepting, yet willing to fight bigots; a peacemaker, yet someone who once single-handedly foiled two muggers.
Friends said Bingham was always smiling, always animated. As a young boy he lived on a houseboat three blocks from Miami's Orange Bowl. On Sundays when the Dolphins were in town, he and his mother would let the crowd roar wash over them.
The two of them moved to Monterey, Calif. in the late 1970s. While his mother was out looking for work, the 9-year-old Bingham would go to the Monterey wharf after school and fish for their dinner.
After he grew up, he used his size—6 feet, 5 inches, 220 pounds—to his advantage by playing rugby. His mother, Alice Hoglan, said he first played the bruising game in high school, and she believed his personality blossomed from it. Bingham went on to play at the University of California at Berkeley, and was a member of two national championship teams in the early 1990s.
Timing was a strength. He opened his public relations firm on the cusp of the high-tech growth in the mid-1990s. His mother marveled that he paid three times as much in taxes as she earned.
In July, he and several friends traveled to Pamplona to run with the bulls. They dressed in the traditional white, with red sashes. The first day was so uneventful, they returned for a second running. Bingham was scooped up on the horns of a bull, tossed to the ground and stomped. He loved showing off the hoof print on the back of his left leg.
"He didn't fit into anyone's mold," Hoglan said. "He was a force for good in the world. He just lived his life as if there were no tomorrow. I guess there's a lot of wisdom in that, looking at what happened."
Deora Bodley
Junior, Santa Clara University, 20, San Diego, Calif.; mother, Deborah Borza; father, Derrill Bodley; half-sister, Murial. She was returning home after visiting friends in New Jersey and Connecticut.
In Ursula K. LeGuin's classic science fiction novel, The Lathe of Heaven, the main character's dreams are capable of changing reality.
It was one of Deora Bodley's favorite books, possibly because the idea of creating a world without wars, disease and overpopulation was one of her goals.
"She was always thinking big and going after big game," said Chris Schuck, who taught Bodley as chairman of the English department at La Jolla Country Day School near San Diego, Calif.
As an 11-year-old, she wrote in one of her journals, "People ask who, what, when, where, how and why. I ask peace."
Bodley, was a junior at Santa Clara University, where she majored in psychology. An insightful writer who was fluent in French, she coordinated college volunteers in a literacy program at a nearby elementary school.
Kathy Almazol, principal at St. Clare Catholic Elementary, said Bodley had "a phenomenal ability to work with people," whether it was the children she read to, her peer volunteers or the school administrators and teachers.
"We have 68 kids who had a personal association with Deora," Almazol said.
Bodley wanted to be a child psychologist because she saw the problems children faced growing up.
Growing up with her mother in San Diego—her parents divorced when she was 2—Deora, which is Gallic for "tears," always seemed older than her age. She traveled with her father to Switzerland when she was just 3 1/2 and often flew to the East Coast.
Schuck remembered reading one of her middle school homework papers and being struck by her honesty.
"You'd read her work and say, 'Am I that honest and truthful with myself?' " he said.
As a high school student, she had enthusiastically traveled to area high schools to discuss sexually transmitted diseases and AIDS with her peers. She also volunteered with the Special Olympics and a local animal shelter.
"She was just burning way too bright," said her mother, Deborah Borza.
She recently found a journal entry written by her daughter when she was 13.
"If I would just live for the moment," the entry went, "and make every moment count, maybe the future would work out. Maybe that moment would be a doorway to the future."
Sandy Bradshaw
United Airlines flight attendant, 38, Greensboro, N.C.; husband, Phil; daughter, Alexandria, 3; son, Nathan, 1; stepdaughter, Shenan, 16. She was a flight attendant on Flight 93.
Growing up on her parents' 90-acre farm near Climax, N.C., Sandy Waugh Bradshaw dreamed of being a flight attendant. But the reality was that she and her four siblings had to tend the more than 30,000 chickens being raised for a poultry producer.
But Pat and John Waugh didn't hold their children back. At age 16, they were allowed to find another job.
That's exactly what Bradshaw did, taking a job at McDonald's until her 1981 high-school graduation, and then a series of secretarial positions during the next nine years.
An outgoing, competitive person, she once jumped in her car late at night to chase people who had stolen her brother's off-road three-wheeler. She got the license plate and police later retrieved the three-wheeler.
Bradshaw kept her eyes on her goal, and in March 1990 joined US Airways as a flight attendant. Five months later, she was laid off during cutbacks. But beginning in October, when she married US Airways pilot Phil Bradshaw, her luck changed. By December of that year, she was working for United Airlines.
While family vacations in North Carolina had rarely ventured beyond the state's borders, the Bradshaws saw the world: Australia, New Zealand, Hawaii, the Caribbean and most of the United States.
"Every place we went we had a blast," Phil Bradshaw said. "My wife loved to travel. That's why we waited so long to have kids."
Alexandria was born in 1998 and Nathan last year, and Sandy, 38, cut her flights to the bare minimum—two two-day trips a month from Newark to San Francisco or to Los Angeles.
"She always wanted to be here for the kids," her husband said.
Yet she loved the day she had between return flights since it gave her a chance to relax, do her nails and catch up on her magazine reading before returning home to Greensboro, N.C. and her husband, children and flower garden.
Earlier this month, the nearly 3-year-old Alexandria once again asked her father at bedtime where mommy was.
"Mommy's not coming home tonight is she?" she asked.
"No," he answered. "Mommy was in an airplane crash and died."
He said she gasped and then said, "Daddy, we'll have to be strong for each other."
Marion Britton
Assistant regional director, U.S. Census Bureau, New York City, 53, Brooklyn, N.Y.; brother, Paul; half-brother, John. She and Waleska Martinez were traveling together to a computer operations conference in San Francisco.
Bearing cards, carefully chosen gifts and delectable pastries, Marion R. Britton never missed a birthday or anniversary and never failed to leave loved ones with full bellies and smiling faces.
"My son used to say she was his fairy godmother," said her brother, the Rev. Paul Britton of Huntington Station, N.Y. "On any holiday, Marion was like a bag lady, pulling out gifts that were precious and something delicious—Italian or German pastries or New York cheesecakes she'd bring along."
Even after developing borderline diabetes, "she loved to watch other people enjoying the things she could not."
To satisfy nephew Wren Britton's taste in punk music, she haunted tiny Manhattan shops until she found new releases by obscure groups he loved. At the U.S. Census Bureau's regional office in Manhattan, where she was assistant director, she ordered in lunch for the office on busy days.
In her early days with the bureau, she'd drop in on homes to ask government-sanctioned questions, then return to drop off packets of food or clothing for struggling families.
Britton grew up in Queens and worked as an accountant before becoming an enumerator, or door-to-door questioner, for the 1980 census. She loved getting paid to talk to people, and census officials hired her permanently after noting her ability to draw out information. Over the next 21 years, she rose to the regional office's second-highest spot.
Outside the office, she socialized with friends at breakfast gatherings and joined a dining group that roamed the city in search of gourmet dinners. She chose her stylish clothes with care and lined her cozy apartment with eclectic furniture, teddy bears and dolls.
A workaholic, Britton could be blunt, and people who didn't know her well didn't always welcome her frankness, said her boss, Regional Director Lester A. Farthing. But her refusal to back down from a conviction often prompted co-workers "to take another look and to find a better way to do things."
"She could use stinging language and she'd let you know if she thought you were wrong. She could be bitchy—I was the brunt of it for many years," her brother recalled. "But she did it for your own good. She was kind-hearted and truthful, and you always knew where you stood."
Thomas Burnett, Jr.
Senior vice president and chief operating officer, Thoratec Corp., 38, San Ramon, Calif.; wife, Deena; daughters, Madison, 5, Halley, 5, Anna Clare, 3. He was returning home after a weekend in Minnesota and Wisconsin, and a business meeting in New Jersey.
As a young man, Tom Burnett used to think that if he could ever earn $25,000 a year and have a company car, he would be king of the world.
Years later, as senior vice president and chief operating officer of Thoratec Corp., known nationally for its creation of heart assist pumps, he was successful beyond his earlier dreams. Burnett would tell his wife, Deena, that he couldn't believe his achievements.
Articulate and competitive, a motivator who could talk a person into almost anything, Burnett was a born salesman. While he couldn't talk his mother into letting him fish from the edge of a dock as a 3-year-old, he did persuade her to let him sit in the middle of it and drop his line through the cracks.
In his hometown of Bloomington in 1980, he quarterbacked a high school team with a modicum of talent to the state championship game. A 1985 University of Minnesota graduate, he parlayed an acquaintance's introduction into a job in California selling intravenous pumps. By 1989, he'd met Deena in Atlanta, where she'd just completed flight-attendant training for Delta Airlines.
Their first date was at an Applebee's where they spent six hours talking. She knew she would marry him after he unscrewed the light bulb above the table and tossed it over his shoulder, shattering it on the floor.
"I'm trying to create a mood here," he told her, "and this light's not helping."
They married in April 1992 after a "romance in the air." Since Burnett traveled all week, the couple would meet in airports, or Deena would leave notes for him on planes. They agreed they were as comfortable in planes as they were in cars. But in 1995, when Deena was expecting, she stopped flying.
Burnett entered fatherhood on his own terms. He liked pushing their three girls around the neighborhood in the stroller, but only while smoking a cigar. Diapers, baths and feeding were on an as-needed basis.
For all his traveling, Burnett was cautious. Long wanting to parachute, he backed out when the chance came, worrying about his family. And when the two of them left for a vacation, he insisted they take separate planes so an accident wouldn't leave the children parentless.
William Cashman
Ironworker and Army Veteran, 60, West New York, N.J.; wife, Margaret. He was traveling with friend Patrick Driscoll to hike in Yosemite National Park.
When William Cashman first took up karate about 10 years ago, he thrilled to the idea that he could break a wooden board with his hands.
"Let's see," challenged his wife, Margaret.
Cashman, tall and wiry like a marathon runner, asked her to brace herself against the dining room wall and hold out the board.
KA-CHOP! Cashman smashed the piece of wood, showering little splinters over his wife. Margaret was so impressed that she invited a friend over and asked that he do it again.
For about three years, Cashman studied karate, working his way up to a red belt before a stomach operation forced him to quit.
The martial arts fit his tough-guy guy background. Born and raised in New York City's Hell's Kitchen neighborhood, Cashman worked with his hands like his brother, a fellow ironworker, and father, a construction worker. Cashman served in the early 1960s as a paratrooper in the 101st Airborne Division, known as the Screaming Eagles.
But his personality belied that aggressive image. Cashman taught welding at night at the Metal Lathers Local 46 school, part of his philosophy of giving back to the union and helping young apprentices.
He was the kind of guy who preferred to listen to a joke rather than tell one. He didn't curse—at least not strongly. And he was patient; welding demanded it.
He also was the only one of Daniel Belardinelli's uncles to show up at his nephew's painting exhibits.
Although Cashman was not an artsy sophisticate, he wasn't afraid of venturing into the unknown. Cashman displayed an interest in his family and wanted to support it. He was the first one to retain his nephew's services when Belardinelli earned his law degree.
"For someone who was a blue-collar guy, he was a very interested person," Belardinelli said.
Early to bed and early to rise, Cashman was quiet and set in his ways. He paid cash for everything, including cars and property, spoke so quietly he could hardly be heard and drove slowly on the highway.
Although he had to give up the martial arts, Cashman could still hike, and he took frequent day trips to Harriman State Park near his home in West New York, N.J. He had already made two visits out west with old friend Patrick Driscoll.
Georgine Corrigan
Antiques dealer, 55, Honolulu, Hawaii; Daughter, Laura Brough. She was returning home after an antiques-buying trip to New Jersey.
As a single mom in 1976 needing to support her infant daughter, Georgine Rose Corrigan turned to what she knew best: schmoozing and hard work.
She parlayed a brief client transaction that year while working as a bank teller in her native Ohio into a job with the Bank of Hawaii. Setting up home in a one-bedroom apartment in Honolulu with her then-6-year-old daughter, Corrigan hit the ground running.
Juggling the bank job with a second one as a paid babysitter at a Hilton hotel, she later managed beauty salons, designed logos for a textile firm, painted Hawaiian floral prints on Christmas ornaments and drew silhouettes. Her daughter, Laura Brough, recalls her mother working such long hours that on Sundays, while the exhausted Corrigan slept, Brough would walk herself to church.
Seven years ago, Corrigan entered the perfect marriage—with antiques. It was natural for her; her parents had collected antiques and her brother, Robert, owned several cars from the early 1900s.
Smiling and making friends as she scoured markets and sales, she picked up pieces for her growing number of clients who collected European, Oriental and Hawaiian antiques. Corrigan sold her wares at shows in Hawaii and on the mainland.
She also bought and sold vintage jewelry and clothes, letters from the early 1900s and anything having to do with roses, because Rose was her middle name. For several years she owned her own antiques shop.
In 1998, Corrigan moved in with her daughter's family. Mother and daughter shared an interest in art collecting, but it was being a devoted grandmother to her 6- and 4-year-old grandsons that gave Corrigan her greatest joy.
"When she was home, she was here to eat, sleep and play with the kids," Brough said.
Her mother had a low pain threshold—"She would cry at a paper cut," Brough said—and she often told her daughter that she felt like she'd suffered numerous disappointments in life.
But, her mother would add while enduring those difficult times: "God is teaching me a lesson now. I don't know what it is, but I'm sure we'll see the light at the end of the tunnel."
Patricia Cushing
Retired service representative for New Jersey Bell, 69, Bayonne, N.J.; sons, Thomas, John, David; daughters Alicia, Pegeen. She was traveling to San Francisco on vacation with sister-in-law Jane Folger.
Patricia Cushing always put others ahead of herself, starting with her husband, Thomas.
After meeting on a blind date, they married less than a year later in 1958. She uprooted her life in Maryland for him, quitting a job at the local phone company because the liquor store he ran was in New Jersey.
When Cushing's father-in-law died, she became the caretaker for his wife, taking her into the couple's Bayonne home. She did the same for her husband's aunt.
Growing up in the post-Depression generation, Cushing saw how hard her father worked. He labored for an electric company during the day, ate dinner and went to night school for accounting.
Cushing followed that ethic at home. She raised five children, achieving fame among them for her meatloaf, and then went back to work to help make ends meet when her youngest son, David, was about 9.
She returned to her roots and got a job with New Jersey Bell Telephone. In 1999, after 20 years, Cushing retired from her position as a service representative.
Although not a college graduate—she was studying to become a teacher before she got married—she had a sophisticated sensibility.
She loved music, and became a season ticket holder at the Metropolitan Opera in New York City after her husband died in 1988. She accompanied her sister-in-law, Jane Folger, to every type of cultural event.
At home, Cushing kept things proper and tidy. She never let jeans or sweatpants degrade her dresser drawers. Her sons mercilessly teased her about the dinner-table rules she imposed—sit straight and chew with your mouth closed—and her obsession with cleaning. If they broke those rules, they were the target of Cushing's evil eye.
Cushing believed in maintaining her dignity during adversity and never letting anyone see her down. The words "woe is me" never crossed her lips. If her son, David, was upset about his job, she would advise him to focus on the good in his life.
It was that core strength that served her well over the last few years in supporting Folger, who had gone through a divorce and the death of two sons. She was a balm for Folger's edgier personality.
Jason Dahl
Captain, United Airlines, 43, Denver, Colo.; wife, Sandy; son, Matthew, 15. He was the captain of the crew of Flight 93 and had moved up his schedule in order to celebrate his wedding anniversary.
Jason Dahl learned how to fly before he learned how to drive a car. Relatives say from the time Dahl could talk, all he wanted to do was fly.
At 13, the San Jose, Calif., native joined the Civil Air Patrol and earned a scholarship for flying lessons. He was flying solo before he was 16, and while working at the municipal airport he did his best to wrangle flight time, including flying photographers over the area.
Immediately following his graduation from San Jose State University in 1980 with a degree in aeronautical engineering, he became a corporate pilot. By 1984, he was a pilot with United Airlines.
Popular with his fellow pilots, Dahl endured good-natured teasing about his height—he stood a shade under 5 feet, 9 inches. He and another pilot used to stand on tiptoe for photos to make themselves appear taller.
Flying was Dahl's love but family was his life. He rose rapidly through United's pilot ranks, and in 1993 became a "standards" pilot for training and testing other pilots. The job allowed him to spend more time at home with his wife, Sandy, and son, Matthew, 15.
Dahl spent nearly three years remodeling the family home in Denver, doing the wiring, plumbing and dry wall with help from a brother-in-law. He found time to take his family snorkeling and scuba diving, and they vacationed in Australia and New Zealand.
He would trade flights to be home for his son's band activities, to help at his Cub and Boy Scout meetings and to coach his Little League team.
When Matt was in sixth grade and taking a class trip to Washington, D.C., Dahl arranged to be the pilot because he felt there was no one in the world who could fly a plane as safely as he could, especially one carrying his son.
He was particularly proud that Matt was 6 feet tall, bursting through what his father called "the Dahl barrier".
Dahl's fifth wedding anniversary was Friday, Sept. 14. To surprise his wife he planned to buy her a baby grand piano, a manicure and pedicure, and fix dinner for her and eight couples. On Sunday, the couple would leave for a three-day trip to London.
In order to get that time off, Dahl and his wife agreed he would fly on Sept. 11-13.
Colleen Fraser
Executive director, Progressive Center for Independent Living; vice chairwoman of the New Jersey Developmental Disabilities Council, 51, Elizabeth, N.J.; sister, Christine Fraser; brother, Bruce James Fraser; two stepsisters, six stepbrothers. She was on her way to a grant-writing seminar in Reno, Nev.
Whether gazing on an oddly formed hunk of driftwood or a person with disabilities, Colleen L. Fraser always saw the possibilities.
Relatives and friends collected wood or metal objects, knowing Fraser would convert them into art. She worked the same magic fordisabled people, transforming once-limited existences into independent, productive lives.
Like her father and younger sister, Fraser was born with a bone condition that necessitated multiple surgeries and kept her height at 4 feet, 6 inches. But her father convinced his three children and eight stepchildren they could accomplish anything, and Fraser found further assurance in the tiny copy of the Constitution she carried in her wallet.
"She loved the idea that all people are created equal," said Ethan B. Ellis, executive director of the New Jersey Developmental Disabilities Council, of which Fraser was vice chairwoman and past chairwoman. "This woman believed the most important thing she could do was to convince [others] of the humanity of people with disabilities."
In numerous jobs and board positions, Fraser lobbied on local, state and national levels for services for the disabled. Her advocacy was geared toward helping disabled people live and work in communities rather than in institutions.
Artistic and theatrical, Fraser studded her ears with pierced earrings and spiked her red hair in a crew cut. She created striking ensembles by mixing conservative jackets, jeans or bohemian prints, then adding scarves or one-of-a-kind brooches. A favorite brooch—a cluster of people of all shapes and sizes—symbolized her ideal world.
Unable to find walking canes she needed in correct proportion to her height, she carved them herself. Later, she branched out to create intricate Madonnas and figurines. She loved independent and horror films, gothic novels and fine literature. For friends' birthdays, she baked sugar cookies in quirky shapes, then laughed in glee at the responses.
"My sister used to joke about being on some FBI list because she protested against the Vietnam War," said her sister and housemate, Christine Fraser. "Now the FBI is coming to our house on her behalf. She would find that very funny."
Deborah Welsh
United Airlines flight attendant, 49, New York City, N.Y.; husband, Patrick. As the purser, she made announcements and directed other attendants on Flight 93.
Flight attendant Deborah Anne Jacobs Welsh couldn't stand to see anyone hungry or hurting on the streets of Hell's Kitchen, her tough New York City neighborhood.
Countless times, she went out to walk Dylan, her Dalmation, only to come back and grab a pair of her husband Patrick's trousers or gloves for a shivering vagrant she'd befriended.
Relatives dubbed Debbie Welsh, 49, "The Little Apostle of the Airlines" after discovering that she often left Newark airport with a stack of unused airline meals. After she rode home on the bus, she'd hand it out to homeless folks between her bus stop and apartment.
But soft-hearted didn't mean soft-willed.
Welsh "didn't take any crap from anyone" and embraced life in a diverse neighborhood with rough edges, said Patrick Welsh, 44, an actor and Pittsburgh native whose parents grew up in Emsworth and McKeesport. She'd traveled alone all over the world, hiking in South America and surviving a near-fatal bout of pneumonia in Bali.
When an elderly neighbor was knocked down by a bicyclist using the sidewalk, Welsh was incensed. After that, she'd shoo away bike messengers or scooter riders, bellowing: "It's a side-WALK, not a side-RIDE, you idiot!"
A native of Darby, Pa., Welsh worked for Bell Telephone Co. after she graduated from high school, and was among the original Flyerette hostesses for Philadelphia Flyers hockey games. Her desire to travel led her to join now-defunct Eastern Airlines in 1972.
After strikes crippled Eastern in the late 1980s, she briefly waited tables in a Greenwich Village restaurant and developed a "Sam-and-Diane" relationship with Patrick, the bartender hired the day after her. The Welshes married in 1991 and were active at St. Paul the Apostle church in Manhattan, where Debbie sang in the choir and Patrick was a lector and parish-council member.
Welsh later flew with Kiwi International Airlines before moving to United. She wasn't scheduled to fly Sept. 11, but had traded shifts with a co-worker.
"I don't think it was a mistake that she was on that flight," her husband said. "She was instrumental, like all those other brave people on that flight, in saving the lives of thousands of people."
Donald Greene
Executive vice president and chief financial officer, Safe Flight Instrument Corp., 52, Greenwich, Conn.; wife, Claudette; son Charlie, 14; daughter Jody, 10. He was headed to join four of his brothers for a hiking trip.
Donald Greene could open a bag of potato chips, eat only two or three and then walk away. His philosophy: No matter how much you eat, the first bite is the best.
Eager and inquisitive, Greene took little bites of many things. He learned to love the opera, to sail, to ski black diamond trails, to fly at age 14. The same discipline that tempered his desire could be seen in his meticulous pre-flight examination of the planes he piloted.
Greene, one of four brothers, was born in White Plains, N.Y. After his father died, his mother married Leonard Greene, the inventor of the stall warning indicator used in aircraft today, and a single father of three children. Greene adopted Donald and his three brothers, who gained one sister from the union of their mother and Leonard Greene. Shortly thereafter, Donald's mother died. Leonard then married a divorced woman who had four children of her own. The Greene family thus ballooned to 12 children.
Every Thanksgiving, all the siblings made a point of gathering for a week at a resort; Greene carried that same emphasis on family to his own brood. He dined with his wife and children every night at their Greenwich, Conn. home, whipped up breakfast for them most weekends and coached children's soccer teams. He also took the children flying.
A 1971 engineering graduate from Brown University, Greene worked several jobs before earning a business degree.
It was then that his father recruited him to his company, Safe Flight Instrument Corp., seeking his expertise as a business administrator and negotiator. Greene's people skills served him well both at work and social gatherings. At dinner parties, people wanted to sit next to Greene because of his pleasant personality and inventive plays on words.
He met his wife, Claudette, during a black tie fund-raiser in 1987.
That night, all the facets of his personality converged—his down-to-earth nature, positive outlook, charm and his piloting skills.
The event was held in an airplane hangar, with small planes parked in a semicircle to create an intimate space. They were one short, so Greene's stepmother, a museum president, asked him to fly in the final plane as a favor. She promised him a reward: a ticket to the dinner and dance. Greene told her he'd be happy to help, but forgot the ticket.
When he arrived, though, Greene acquiesced, agreeing to stay. He found himself seated next to Claudette, whose own date, her brother, had canceled. They hit it off right away.
Donald Peterson
He was the retired president, Continental Electric Co. Church
and community volunteer, 66, of Spring Lake, N.J. His wife Jean Hoadley Peterson was
a retired nurse and nursing teacher. Church and community volunteer, 55,
of Spring Lake, N.J.
His sons, David, Hamilton, Royster Peterson. Her
daughters, Jennifer, Grace, Catherine Price. They were on their way to
a family reunion at Yosemite National Park.
She taught nursing, rode with the local ambulance service and raised three daughters. He was the president of New Jersey's Continental Electric Co. and the father of three boys.
After meeting through a church group in the early 1980s, they married in 1984. For the next 17 years, Donald A. Peterson and Jean Hoadley Peterson lived a life of quiet service to alcoholics and addicts, women with crisis pregnancies and residents of impoverished nations.
"They lived their lives and taught by example," said Jean Peterson's oldest daughter, Jennifer Price, 29, of Wellesley, Mass. "They didn't force their beliefs on people. They just quietly reached out to everybody who needed help."
Both were divorced parents when they became acquainted through a Christian fellowship group in Madison, N.J. A mutual friend, who had been Jennifer Price's kindergarten teacher, set them up.
"I was in the eighth grade when Don arrived on our doorstep to meet her," Price said, laughing at the memory. "Basically, he never left."
Jean Peterson was the daughter of Virginia and Walter Hoadley, a San Francisco economist who was vice president of Bank of America. She spent two years at Duke University before transferring to the University of Rochester, where she earned a nursing degree.
She later earned a master's of education degree from Columbia University and taught nursing in New Jersey for several years before moving with her first husband to England for several years.
After returning to New Jersey and later divorcing, she raised her three daughters—Jennifer, Grace and Catherine Price—and became an emergency-medical technician with the Madison ambulance squad. Although she was also active at church and with community organizations, her daughter Jennifer said her mother's answer was always, "I'm a mom," when people asked about her career.
"Once we all grew up and moved out, she dedicated herself to helping others," Price said. "The number of people my mother talked to in one day was amazing."
Don Peterson, too, was a tireless volunteer, particularly after he retired from the electric company and moved with Jean in 1991 to Spring Lake, N.J.
Don, who grew up in South Orange, N.J., graduated with degrees in electrical engineering from the Massachusetts Institute of Technology and Rutgers University and later studied at Harvard University. But he seldom mentioned his prestigious degrees or work history.
"They never talked about their lives. They talked about you because they cared to meet you, learn something about you and how to help you," said the Rev. Jim Loveland of Community Baptist Church in Neptune, N.J., where the couple had worshipped for about three years.
"So many people read the obituaries and said they'd had no idea that they had those degrees or that Don been a president of a big company."
In Spring Lake, Don was on the board and counseled troubled men at America's Keswick, a residential recovery center for drug addicts and alcoholics in Whiting, N.J. Jean volunteered at the Helping Hands Pregnancy Center in Shrewsbury, N.J., collecting and washing clothes for babies whose mothers were clients.
Outgoing and charming, the Petersons led Bible studies and traveled with church friends to help a mission in Saint Lucia. They quietly made interest-free loans to families that needed a financial boost.
"Don and Jean had a comfortable life," Loveland said. "But they didn't flaunt it. They used their wealth to help people, to build the kingdom of God."
While the Petersons didn't live lavishly, they loved dining out, with Don seizing every opportunity to go out for breakfast. Jean seldom missed her regular stroll with a group along Spring Lake's boardwalk. They traveled. Two weeks before her death, Jean Peterson went to Wellesley, Mass., to hold her first grandchild, Jennifer Price's now-9-week-old daughter, Charlotte.
On Sept. 11, they'd planned to take a later flight to a family reunion at Yosemite National Park, but at the airport seized a chance to switch to less-crowded Flight 93. Their memorial service drew nearly 1,000 people they'd worked with, helped or counseled and had to be moved to a larger sanctuary nearby.
"I wasn't on that plane, but I believe I know what happened. At the end, I'm sure they were praying and ministering with the others, encouraging them to be right with the Lord," Loveland said. "That's what their lives were about."
Jean Peterson
Her husband, Donald Peterson, was the retired president, Continental Electric Co. Church and community volunteer, 66, of Spring Lake, N.J. She was a retired nurse and nursing teacher. Church and community volunteer, 55, of Spring Lake, N.J. His sons, David, Hamilton, Royster Peterson. Her daughters, Jennifer, Grace, Catherine Price. They were on their way to a family reunion at Yosemite National Park.
She taught nursing, rode with the local ambulance service and raised three daughters. He was the president of New Jersey's Continental Electric Co. and the father of three boys.
After meeting through a church group in the early 1980s, they married in 1984. For the next 17 years, Donald A. Peterson and Jean Hoadley Peterson lived a life of quiet service to alcoholics and addicts, women with crisis pregnancies and residents of impoverished nations.
"They lived their lives and taught by example," said Jean Peterson's oldest daughter, Jennifer Price, 29, of Wellesley, Mass. "They didn't force their beliefs on people. They just quietly reached out to everybody who needed help."
Both were divorced parents when they became acquainted through a Christian fellowship group in Madison, N.J. A mutual friend, who had been Jennifer Price's kindergarten teacher, set them up.
"I was in the eighth grade when Don arrived on our doorstep to meet her," Price said, laughing at the memory. "Basically, he never left."
Jean Peterson was the daughter of Virginia and Walter Hoadley, a San Francisco economist who was vice president of Bank of America. She spent two years at Duke University before transferring to the University of Rochester, where she earned a nursing degree.
She later earned a master's of education degree from Columbia University and taught nursing in New Jersey for several years before moving with her first husband to England for several years.
After returning to New Jersey and later divorcing, she raised her three daughters—Jennifer, Grace and Catherine Price—and became an emergency-medical technician with the Madison ambulance squad. Although she was also active at church and with community organizations, her daughter Jennifer said her mother's answer was always, "I'm a mom," when people asked about her career.
"Once we all grew up and moved out, she dedicated herself to helping others," Price said. "The number of people my mother talked to in one day was amazing."
Don Peterson, too, was a tireless volunteer, particularly after he retired from the electric company and moved with Jean in 1991 to Spring Lake, N.J.
Don, who grew up in South Orange, N.J., graduated with degrees in electrical engineering from the Massachusetts Institute of Technology and Rutgers University and later studied at Harvard University. But he seldom mentioned his prestigious degrees or work history.
"They never talked about their lives. They talked about you because they cared to meet you, learn something about you and how to help you," said the Rev. Jim Loveland of Community Baptist Church in Neptune, N.J., where the couple had worshipped for about three years.
"So many people read the obituaries and said they'd had no idea that they had those degrees or that Don been a president of a big company."
In Spring Lake, Don was on the board and counseled troubled men at America's Keswick, a residential recovery center for drug addicts and alcoholics in Whiting, N.J. Jean volunteered at the Helping Hands Pregnancy Center in Shrewsbury, N.J., collecting and washing clothes for babies whose mothers were clients.
Outgoing and charming, the Petersons led Bible studies and traveled with church friends to help a mission in Saint Lucia. They quietly made interest-free loans to families that needed a financial boost.
"Don and Jean had a comfortable life," Loveland said. "But they didn't flaunt it. They used their wealth to help people, to build the kingdom of God."
While the Petersons didn't live lavishly, they loved dining out, with Don seizing every opportunity to go out for breakfast. Jean seldom missed her regular stroll with a group along Spring Lake's boardwalk. They traveled. Two weeks before her death, Jean Peterson went to Wellesley, Mass., to hold her first grandchild, Jennifer Price's now-9-week-old daughter, Charlotte.
On Sept. 11, they'd planned to take a later flight to a family reunion at Yosemite National Park, but at the airport seized a chance to switch to less-crowded Flight 93. Their memorial service drew nearly 1,000 people they'd worked with, helped or counseled and had to be moved to a larger sanctuary nearby.
"I wasn't on that plane, but I believe I know what happened. At the end, I'm sure they were praying and ministering with the others, encouraging them to be right with the Lord," Loveland said. "That's what their lives were about."
Edward Felt
Computer engineer, BEA Systems, 41, Matawan, N.J.; wife, Sandy; daughters, Adrienne, 14, Kathryn, 11. He was on his way to a business meeting in San Francisco.
As an undergraduate at Colgate University, Edward Felt had to deal with ribbing from pre-med students for acing biology and chemistry courses and destroying the grading curve.
Felt, a computer science major, wasn't interested in medicine. He was interested in learning.
Like many kids growing up, Felt liked to take household items apart to see how they worked. The difference was, he put them back together without any leftover pieces. At 6, he tried to rewire the basement of the family home in Clinton, N.Y.
The oldest of three boys, he set the pace for academic achievement in school.
"We were always being compared to him," said his youngest brother, Gordon, of Remsen, N.Y.
On the third day of freshman orientation at Colgate in 1977, he met another freshman, Sandy Valdez. The two became friends and married in 1982. Sandy Felt remembered how even as a college freshman, her husband would become animated talking about computers, encryption techniques or chaos theory, all the while drawing diagrams and graphs on napkins.
Felt was not jump-off-the-chair animated. Instead, his eyes brightened and his focus became more intense, but he always remained calmly confident of his ability to solve problems and explain.
After earning a master's degree from Cornell University, Felt was hired as a programmer by AT&T. A later stint with Novell morphed into a job in 1996 with BEA Systems, an e-business infrastructure software company in Liberty Corner, N.J.
Felt was one of the top five engineers at the billion-dollar company, and received a U.S. patent in August for a software application he designed for BEA.
He loved gadgetry. His home computer was equipped with everything, and so was the TV. He often ordered items from Scientific American magazine to use while teaching his two daughters about science.
But he also loved being outside. During summers, he often swam 40 laps nightly and ran four miles. He would do his running late at night, after having had dinner with his family and spending time with his daughters.
Felt's wife said his ability to focus provided a sense of security to his family, co-workers and friends.
"He just had an amazing ability to calm himself and to calm others," she said.
Honor Elizabeth Wainio
Regional manager, Discovery Channel stores, 27, Watchung, N.J.; father, Ben Wainio, stepmother, Esther Heymann; mother, Mary White, stepfather Jay White; brother, Tom Wainio; sister, Sarah Wainio, 14; She was on her way to a company-wide business meeting.
Early in September, Honor Elizabeth Wainio relaxed on the bank of the Seine River while vacationing in Paris and drank in the sunset. All around her, people were rushing, but she just stood still, a pillar of calm, fully absorbing the waning day's beauty.
Sometimes Wainio was one of those rushing people. She had enjoyed a meteoric rise in the ranks of the Discovery Channel outlets, starting as a store manager in Baltimore two years earlier, becoming the top-performing regional manager in the 170-store chain, and then ascending to regional manager for New York and New Jersey.
But on that day, Wainio knew how to step back and live in the moment. As her stepmother, Esther Heymann, said, people can be 110 years old and not learn to appreciate life. By age 27, Wainio had discovered the secret.
Since she was young, the extroverted little girl called Honor—fter a family nickname for her grandmother, Eleanor—ad lived on fast forward, her young life a melange of ballet lessons and tap classes and learning the viola.
During high school in Catonsville, Md., when she became known as "Lizz", Wainio never sat still. She acted, played in the orchestra, was named to a county all-star field hockey team, captained the cheerleading squad, presided over the varsity club, and served as news editor of the school paper.
Wainio had planned to parlay that last activity into a career, and took up mass communications in college. But her fascination with retail grew the more she worked, first at Baskin-Robbins in high school, then Crabtree & Evelyn and Gymboree in college, and finally, the Discovery Channel.
Armed with "carpe diem" as a motto, Wainio evolved into a champion motivator of people, playing pumped-up music in the background when leaving messages for co-workers.
She also could accept motivation from others. The day before Wainio turned 17, a memorial service was held for her grandmother. She felt uncomfortable celebrating her own birthday, but Heymann convinced her to.
"A year later, as I sit and remember my 17th birthday, I know it was filled with sadness," Wainio wrote. "Yet at the same time, it was probably the first birthday I had ever had that was truly a celebration of life."
Jane Folger
Retired bank officer, 73, Bayonne, N.J.; sons, Robert, Thomas, Michael; daughter, Kathleen Kulik. She was traveling to San Francisco on vacation with her sister-in-law, Patricia Cushing.
If she could have afforded it, Jane Folger would have moved across the Hudson River from her Bayonne, N.J. home to set up house in New York City.
Manhattan drew her like a magnet. She always approached New York with wide-eyed adoration and could never get enough of the stores, the theater, Greenwich Village, or the World Trade Center complex.
A notoriously finicky shopper who would spend hours browsing through clothing shops only to return home empty-handed, Folger never had that problem when it came to cultural events.
The cheaper the event, the better. She was adept at ferreting out free poetry readings, lectures and concerts. Folger had learned to scrimp and save as a housewife raising six children. One relative joked that she was the greatest accountant who ever lived, making do on her husband's Post Office salary.
When her children were old enough, Folger went to work. A high school graduate, she started at the bottom of the ladder as a bank teller; 25 years later, in 1994, she retired as a bank officer.
Dealing with precision and numbers suited the meticulous Folger. She kept the same discipline at home, saving 10 years' worth of receipts and phone bills.
By age 73, Folger had endured a difficult life. In addition to going through a painful divorce, she lost one son in Vietnam and another to AIDS in 1994. She was his caretaker, and his death changed her, plunging her into an angry mood.
In the aftermath of that difficult period, she began to grow close to her late brother's wife, Patricia Cushing, who lived four blocks away.
They shared the same tastes in conservative classic clothing and enjoyed cashing in together on the benefits of senior citizenship.
Cushing's soft-spoken attitude provided a calming influence on the nervous Folger, and soon the duo became partners on many jaunts, including Flight 93.
Folger instilled a love of New York in her grandchildren. Pair by pair, she would take the six of them on tours to the city, introducing them to her favorite haunts.
After Folger's death, her hometown newspaper ran a picture of her and two of her granddaughters doing what she loved best, playing tour guide. The photo showed them standing atop the World Trade Center.
Jeremy Glick
Sales manager, Vividence, Inc., 31, Hewitt, N.J.; wife, Lyzbeth; daughter, Emerson, 3 months. He was on a business trip to California.
Nagayasu Ogasawara's jaw dropped when he saw Jeremy Glick at the 1993 national collegiate judo championships in San Francisco. Ogasawara was coaching Army's team; Glick, a college senior, was at the tournament alone, competing independently.
"He had no team. He had no coach," said Ogasawara, who had taught Glick judo from the age of 7 until he left for college. "So I said, 'OK, I'll coach you.' "
Glick went on to win the title.
There was another reason Glick made that 1993 trip: Lyzbeth Makely. The two had grown up together near Upper Saddle River, N.J. Glick was the third of six children, all of whose names began with "J."
Though Makely described Glick as "a goofy kid with an Afro," they had been named their high school's prom king and queen. They'd gone to different colleges and Makely was living in San Francisco at the time of the judo championships.
"He always said he worked very hard to make nationals so he could get a free trip to see me," she said.
They married in 1996. Glick was a leading sales rep with Giga Information Group, but in 2000 joined Vividence, an Internet service provider of products about the behavior, thoughts and attitudes of Web customers.
The couple settled into life in Hewitt, N.J., and while Glick often told his wife that he could have waited a few more years to become a parent, once their daughter, Emerson, was born in June he wanted nothing more than to spend time with her.
Their daughter was born premature, and Glick went on all the trips to the doctor. She required hourly feeding, and while the couple often took turns, sometimes Glick would stay up all night so his wife could sleep.
This summer, she said, Glick would "come home from work and say, 'Can I have the baby now?' He was jealous that I had the baby all day."
Nor did he shy away from diaper duty, although Lyz said he often would end up being with the baby for 30 minutes, and then yell for her to come in to see Emerson smile.
Lyz has received more than 1,000 letters since Sept. 11. She's saving them so Emerson will know what her father did that day.
"At least she will know that the reason he did that is that he wanted to come home to her."
Kristin White Gould
Freelance medical writer, 65, New York City; daughter, Allison Vadhan. She was on her way to visit friends in California.
Sins are sins, Kristin White Gould believed, but ignorance and boredom were two of the most egregious.
Fluent in several languages, conversant in music ranging from Mozart to Michael Jackson, an author and inveterate traveler, Kristin made a point of keeping both at bay through her capacious knowledge and a worldwide circle of friends.
Kristin's passion was people—whether they were the ancient Greeks, neighbors near her brownstone on New York's Upper West Side or the medical pioneers she depicted during her more than 30 years as a freelance writer.
Born Olga Kristin Osterholm to wealthy parents in Long Island, she was a high school valedictorian before graduating from Cornell University in 1957. She was married three times and divorced twice.
As a single mother of a 3-year-old daughter, Kristin embarked on a career as a freelance writer, specializing in medical issues for such publications as Medical World News, Environmental Health Perspectives and the Journal of Women's Health. An equal opportunity freelancer, she even penned stories under a pseudonym for the National Enquirer tabloid.
Five feet 8 inches tall, she favored big sweaters and the low-keyed couture of Ann Taylor. Zipping around New York in her Saab convertible, she attended plays, concerts and the ballet, rarely going more than a week without listening to live music. Her retention of information was staggering, from the finer points of a biography of Samuel Taylor Coleridge to the German lyrics of an obscure song from the Three Penny Opera.
While proud of her Scandinavian heritage, Kristin trumpeted the bit of Irish blood in her genes, and read everything she could about Ireland, from Yeats to anonymous playwrights.
One of the latter was a New York acquaintance of Kristin's, a struggling author who in 1996 published a memoir about growing up in poverty-stricken Ireland during the 1930s and 1940s. Kristin's friends say she loved the book but thought its style might keep it from reaching a broader audience. She bought 100 copies of the book, titled Angela's Ashes, and handed them out to friends. The book and its author, Frank McCourt, won the 1996 Pulitzer Prize for biography.
Lauren Grandcolas
Advertising sales consultant, Good Housekeeping magazine, 38, San Rafael, Calif.; husband, Jack. She was returning home from her grandmother's funeral in New Jersey.
On her 30th birthday, Lauren Catuzzi-Grandcolas made sure she got the gift she really wanted. Telling no one until the day before, Grandcolas arranged for herself and her husband, Jack, to leap out of a plane and parachute to the Napa Valley below. She knew Jack and the rest of her family might try to talk her out of her long-anticipated foray into skydiving, so she simply set it up herself.
"I took her out there but I wasn't going to do it," Jack Grandcolas said. "But there was this petite, size-2 gal with a heart the size of Texas. What choice did I have?"
A videotape shot during the jump captured the elated grin found so often on her face when she mastered something challenging. Fit and fearless, Lauren Catuzzi Grandcolas, 38, of San Rafael, Calif., spent her life seeking out new skills, sports and situations, and helping other women do the same.
Grandcolas was born in Bloomington, Ind., and lived on the East Coast as a child, but attended high school in Houston, Texas. She met her husband while both attended the University of Texas at Austin.
After graduation, Grandcolas worked as a marketing executive for a law firm and PricewaterhouseCoopers. She then became an advertising sales consultant for Good Housekeeping magazine while researching and writing a non-fiction book to help women boost their self-esteem.
Devoted to fitness and the outdoors, Grandcolas hiked, jogged, kayaked and zipped around her neighborhood on in-line skates. She kept up with her sisters and wide circle of friends by phone daily, once telephoning moments before she underwent surgery to ask an actor friend about an audition. She took classes in cooking, gardening, scuba-diving and wine appreciation
Through her book, Grandcolas intended to help other women derive the same joy she'd found tackling and mastering new pursuits. The unfinished book, which had attracted a publisher's interest, borrowed from the Girl Scouts of America practice of awarding badges for achievement.
"She made a point to do things that were good for her, and she thought she could extend what she'd learned to help other adult women gain confidence," her husband said. "Now her sister and I will fulfill her dream by completing the book.
"There's no firm title, but somehow she'll let us know what it should be when it comes time."
Mark Rothenberg
Owner, MDR Global Resources, 52, Scotch Plains, N.J.; wife, Meredith; daughters Sara, Rachel. He was on his way to Taiwan for business.
One night several years ago, Mark Rothenberg found himself at a Beverly Hills restaurant with comedian Jackie Mason.
Ever the consummate salesman, the outgoing Rothenberg introduced himself to the funnyman as he had done so many times before to celebrities, often to the embarrassment of his wife, Meredith.
They talked for a bit, and then Rothenberg drove to his hotel. At 2 in the morning, the phone rang. It was Mason, asking about his car.
Both men had rented the same style Mercedes—black, like the cashmere sweaters Rothenberg favored—and the parking valet had mixed them up.
Rothenberg had a million such stories, the product of an extroverted personality and the go-go pace of a salesman on the move.
Since graduating from Franklin & Marshall College in 1970, Rothenberg had worked with his father in their Brooklyn, N.Y. glassware company, becoming the chief salesman before taking over the business.
He had inherited his father's intense work ethic and his devotion to family. Rothenberg racked up huge phone bills when his oldest daughter, Rachel, lived in Portugal. And he devoted himself to his widowed mother, Dorothy, calling her two or three times a day.
Rothenberg had a mind like a calculator. He could reel off shipping costs, prices and percentages without consulting a computer. If he dialed a phone number once, he never forgot it.
Zipping around Scotch Plains, N.J. in his brand-new BMW convertible, Rothenberg was enjoying the fruits of his new venture, an import business. A few years ago, he had sold the glassware concern and launched his own company, traveling frequently to Asia.
Rothenberg could conk out instantly on those long trips—always upgrading his ticket to first class by cashing in his enormous amount of frequent flyer mileage—but a lower back problem would leave him hardly able to walk when he woke up on the other side of the world.
With his pack-a-day cigarette habit and optimist's bent, Rothenberg would race through a normal workday, eat dinner, and then labor half the night talking to Asia.
Meredith Rothenberg doesn't understand why her husband, who lived by the phone, didn't call her from the plane.
Patrick Driscoll
Retired director of software development for regional Bell telephone companies and Navy Veteran, 70, Point Pleasant Beach, N.J.;wife, Maureen; sons Stephen, Patrick, Christopher; daughter, Pamela. He was traveling with friend William Cashman to hike in Yosemite National Park.
Brainy and rugged, Patrick "Joe" Driscoll straddled two worlds. During the work week, he had labored in the rarefied realm of computer scientists as a director of software development for the nation's regional telephone companies. But during his off time, he relaxed with the ironworkers who were his boyhood chums in the New York City neighborhood of Yorkville.
"He could work both ways, in the boardroom and then come out in the streets and tell it like it was," recalled one of those friends, John Linner, who knew Driscoll for more than 50 years. "In those days, if you had an argument in a bar, if you had a fight, you used your hands. He probably had 100 wins and nine losses. He mixed it up with a lot of guys."
It wasn't until Driscoll returned from a four-year stint on a Navy destroyer during the Korean War that his old friends found out just how smart he was.
He entered Columbia University, finished his bachelor's degree at New York University, and got a master's at Rutgers University. From there, he went to work for Bell Telephone. In 1958, Driscoll met his wife, Maureen. They married the next year.
Driscoll's love of his job paralleled his ardor for the outdoors. For 25 years, he billygoated up mountains in national parks across the country, snowmobiled at Yellowstone and snowshoed through Bryce Canyon.
Prone to warbling Irish songs, the quick-tempered Driscoll, with his lanky build, big hands and mane of gray hair, always pushed his hiking mates to the limit. He didn't want to outrun the bears, Driscoll always said—just his friends.
Driscoll kept himself fit. He wouldn't let a heart triple bypass in 1993 derail him and battled back from a hip replacement five years later.
Retirement in 1992 allowed him to make 10 trips to his ancestral Irish homeland and gave him more time to explore this country.
When he would haul himself to the top of a mountain in one of his wilderness getaways, it was a spiritual experience.
At the summit, he felt as if he were in church. It was, he told his wife Maureen, like being closer to God.
Toshiya Kuge
Sophomore, School of Science and Engineering, Waseda University, Tokyo, 20, Toyonaka City, Osaka Prefecture, Japan; parents, Yachiyo and Hajime. He was flying home after vacationing and visiting colleges in the United States and Canada.
Toshiya Kuge "wanted to be friends with people" and to study in America, he wrote in an essay for a class he took earlier this year at the University of Utah.
At home in Japan, the 20-year-old cut back on playing soccer to join an American-style football team. In Utah, he spent the month of April in an intensive program intended to help him improve his English speaking and writing skills.
His late-summer vacation to the United States and Canada was to be part recreation and part preparation for his goal of obtaining a graduate degree from an American university. He was on his way back to college in Japan when he boarded Flight 93.
Kuge grew up in Toyonaka City, and graduated in 1999 from Kitano High School, where he was a well-regarded student and goalkeeper on the soccer team. He was a sophomore studying design and creation of materials in the science and engineering department at Waseda University in Tokyo.
About half of the graduates from that program go on to enroll in master's-degree programs. Kuge planned to be among them, and in spring 2001 joined about 20 other Waseda students for a four-week English-language seminar at Utah.
Kuge returned to Japan for the summer before flying Aug. 29 to Canada to check out universities in Vancouver and go rafting at Jasper National Park. Although he was alone, he was outgoing enough to get acquainted and share the enormous lunch he'd packed with rafters Kristine White and Debbie Schiies of Chicago.
In a letter to Kuge's mother, the women wrote of how they'd been struck by Kuge's friendliness and appreciation of nature. From Jasper, he traveled east to tour the area around Niagara Falls.
"He had long wanted to see both faces of Niagara Falls, from the Canadian and U.S. sides," said his mother, Yachiyo Kuge. Intending to visit a Waseda classmate, he went on to New York City, but was unable to hook up with his friend.
Kuge was due in Japan Sept. 12. His memorial service at an Osaka hotel was packed with relatives and friends. In Utah, counselors were summoned to meet with students who'd known him there.
"We are still desperate to know what happened during our son's final moments," said Kuge's mother, who traveled to the Somerset County crash site and left a Japanese flag and intricate origami birds there in his honor.
Wanda Green
United Airlines flight attendant. Real-estate agent, 49, Linden, N.J.; son, Joe Benjamin; daughter, Jennifer. She was working on Flight 93 after changing her schedule to be off two days later.
Every Christmas Eve, Wanda Green made sure that the packages her daughter Jennifer and son Joe Benjamin would open that night included new pairs of pajamas.
Some were cozy, fuzzy flannel with sewn-on feet. Others, stitched from ever-zanier prints, made the children shriek with laughter or roll their eyes. Each was a tangible reminder of Green's devotion to her daughter and son.
"Her goal was to give her kids the best life possible," said Green's twin sister, Sandra Jamerson, 49, of Antioch, Calif. "She saw to it that they got a good education."
Green had multiple vocations for much of her life, particularly after her divorce nine years ago from the father of college students Jennifer, 21, and Joe, 18. While working as a United flight attendant, she earned an associate degree in art at Rockland Community College in New York in 1990, completing studies she'd begun three decades ago in Oregon.
Green, whose United career spanned 29 years, also earned a real-estate license, then worked as an agent and an office manager for the ERA and Northstar agencies. She'd planned to retire from United in a year or two, then open her own real-estate office.
"She didn't always have a lot, but she made sure that Joe had a graduation party, that Jen had a 21st birthday party," said Green's best friend, flight attendant Donita Judge of Denville, N.J.
Her extended family included her parents and relatives in her hometown of Oakland, Calif., her longtime friends, and even homebuying clients she'd just met. More than once, her sister said, Green dipped into her own pocket for a loan if a client came up a bit short at closing.
Green was a deacon at Linden Presbyterian Church and volunteered with church, school and community groups. Somewhere, she found time for a book club.
Always on the run, she depended on e-mail and her cell phone to keep up with loved ones, and she was planning a trip to Paris with her mother, her sister and her sister's children after Christmas.
The trip has been cancelled. But Judge has vowed to make sure one other thing Green had planned for December still gets done.
"I'll be doing the pajamas now," she said. "I promised her that."
Waleska Martinez
Supervisory computer specialist, New York regional office, U.S. Census Bureau, 37, Jersey City, N.J.; parents, Juan and Irma Martinez; brothers Juan Jr., Reinaldo; sister, Lourdes Lebron. She and Marion Britton were traveling together to a computer-operations conference in San Francisco.
At work, Waleska Martinez was friendly but reserved, always mindful of her responsibility to supervise the employees she'd trained and the computers that kept her office humming.
After quitting time, however, the conscientious computer whiz had no trouble unwinding. Martinez, 37, reveled in whipping up rice and beans for a crowd, shivering through movie thrillers or dancing until she dropped at her favorite pop singers' concerts.
"She was a very smart, very quiet person, but oh my God, could she let herself loose," marveled her roommate, Angela Lopez, 39. "She was so much fun."
Born in Puerto Rico, Martinez studied computer science and business at the University of Puerto Rico, graduating first in her class in 1986. She taught computer science at two Puerto Rican universities before moving to New York in 1987.
In 1988, she was hired as a clerk in the U.S. Census Bureau's regional office. Promoted to supervisory computer specialist, she recruited and trained other computer specialists.
"She was a manager's dream, responsible and great at resolving problems," said her boss, Regional Director Lester A. Farthing.
After hours, she played tennis and baseball, rooted for the New York Yankees, went to plays and cooked Spanish or Italian feasts for friends. Twice a year, she traveled to Cancun or other spots with Lopez, always cramming her suitcase with twice as much as she needed. And nothing was too pricey when it came to catching live performances of Tina Turner, Madonna or Gloria Estefan.
Earlier this year, Martinez shelled out $500 for two tickets to Madonna's Philadelphia concert and sang along until she was hoarse. Two weeks later, she and Lopez did it again "up in nosebleed territory" when the singer performed in New York.
"It was one of those spur of the moment things," Lopez said sheepishly.
Lopez bought a ball cap bearing Madonna's "Drowned World" tour logo that night. Martinez wore it to the airport Sept. 11.
"I kidded her, 'That's my hat,' " Lopez said. "Now I'm glad she had something of me with her."
Andrew Garcia
President and founder, Cinco Group Inc. and Air National Guard Veteran, 62, Portola Valley, Calif.; wife, Dorothy; daughters, Kelly Garcia, Audrey Olive; son, Andrew. He was returning home from a business meeting.
It wasn't unusual for Dorothy Garcia to answer the phone and be confronted by a strange voice she didn't recognize. Time and again, it turned out to be her husband, Andrew, disguising himself. Invariably, even after 32 years of marriage, she fell for it.
That was only one of a bag of tricks employed by Garcia, a California businessman who remained a prankster at heart, even at age 62.
He would create noise with a tiny, hand-held clicker, making people turn around. And he would suddenly peer in one direction, prompting his wife to do the same, in a teasing, "Hah! Made you look" way.
Garcia balanced his whimsical bent with a devout Christian faith and a serious concern for the well-being of others. He didn't just glibly ask people how they were when he bumped into them; like an intuitive therapist, he really wanted to know.
With his olive skin and strict adherence to a daily regimen of jumping jacks, toe touches and sit-ups, Garcia didn't look his age.
He played tennis and golf, jogged three miles a day, and sometimes could be found on the soccer field helping coach a children's team while still in business attire.
Born to a family with roots in Spain and raised in San Jose, Garcia grew up working in fruit orchards and at his father's grocery store. He also delivered mail, putting himself through San Jose State University, where he was a sprinter.
After graduating in 1961, Garcia went to work for United Airlines as a purchasing manager at its engineering base in San Francisco. Dorothy worked as a secretary downstairs
Eventually, Garcia left the airline and, with Dorothy, founded Cinco Group Inc., which sells industrial products.
In the 1960s, Garcia was in the Air National Guard. He began learning to fly, but switched his study to become an air traffic controller and never attained his pilot's license.
That didn't dampen his interest in flying, though. He used to load his oldest daughter, Kelly, into their Volkswagen with a sun roof and park at airports to watch the planes. They knew every model—military and civilian—just by the shape.
Kelly earned her pilot's license in 1992.
CeeCee Lyles
United Airlines flight attendant. Former police officer, 33, Fort Myers, Fla.; husband, Lorne; sons, Jerome Smith, 16, Jevon Castrillo, 6, Justin Lyles, 11, Jordan Lyles, 9. She was working in the rear section of Flight 93.
Smart, strong and street-savvy, CeeCee Lyles had a golden future ahead of her as a cop.
In six years with the Fort Pierce, Fla., Police Department, she'd worked her way from patrol officer to detective and was respected for her willingness to tackle fleeing criminals. Slated for promotion to sergeant, Lyles augmented her income by moonlighting at a hospital and power plant, providing a comfortable life for her sons, Jerome Smith and Jevon Castrillo.
After coaxing soft-spoken, handsome police dispatcher Lorne Lyles to join the force in 1997, she married him three years later and made his sons, Justin and Jordan, her own. But last fall, after Lorne spotted an ad for job openings on a United Airlines web site, CeeCee walked away from police work and, on Oct. 11, 2000, fulfilled a lifelong goal.
"She'd always wanted to be a flight attendant so she could travel," said Lorne Lyles, 31, now a police officer in Fort Myers, Fla. "After years of police work, her kind heart got tired of seeing the sad part of the job."
CeeCee grew up in Fort Pierce and raised her sons on her own until she married Lorne in May 2000 and later moved to Fort Myers. Emulating her mother and aunts, she never took welfare, instead working two or three jobs while volunteering at Restoration House, a Christian women's shelter that two of her aunts founded in Fort Pierce.
"CeeCee was a role model, showing women they could make their own way without leeching off the system," said her aunt, Mareya Schneider. "In the last few years, she really dedicated herself to the Lord and she would use Scripture to explain that if you don't work, you don't eat."
Easygoing and athletic, with a trademark warm grin, CeeCee spent free time tending to her blended family, playing softball and baseball and helping with police programs for children.
Moments before Flight 93 went down, CeeCee dialed home twice on a cell phone to tell Lorne of the hijacking and of her love for him and their boys. Calmly, she prayed to see her husband's face again, then beseeched God to forgive and welcome her home—along with everyone else on the plane.
"My wife was a strong God-fearing woman who loved her family. She meant the world to me," Lorne Lyles said. "It's hard to figure out what to do next without her."
Christine Snyder
Arborist, The Outdoor Circle, 32, Kailua, Hawaii; husband, Ian Pescaia. She was returning home after attending the American Forestry Conference in Washington, D.C. and visiting New York City for the first time.
With her long blonde hair and a deep beach tan honed from a lifetime in Hawaii, Christine Snyder often was underestimated by the people she came up against in her job as a certified arborist with the islands' oldest nonprofit environmental group.
But time and again during her 6 1/2 years with The Outdoor Circle, Snyder would convince developers, builders and state officials of the need to preserve and replant native trees across the Hawaiian islands.
As project manager for landscape and planting, "she had a very strong opinion and very good ideas," said Mary Steiner, chief executive officer of The Outdoor Circle. "She was vibrant and caring, and forceful in seeing things through.
"There is a lot of red tape and a lot of coordination that was required. I think she really knew her stuff."
A native Hawaiian, Snyder, 32, lived a half hour's drive east of Honolulu in Kailua in a three-bedroom townhouse with her husband, Ian Pescaia, their cat, Horace, and pointer-red nose pit bull named Zeus. The townhouse was Snyder's pride and joy, decorated with Hawaiian prints bursting with pastel renderings of women garlanded with flowers.
The couple first met in 1984, when Snyder was a high-school freshman and Pescaia a senior. They began dating in 1993 and were married in June in a casual ceremony near the water.
By then, Snyder already was ensconced with The Outdoor Circle, founded 89 years earlier by civic-minded women who wanted to beautify Honolulu when it was in the midst of a commercial boom from whaling and pineapple and sugar plantations. The three-person staff was supplemented by 11 branches across the state, and Snyder's job required her to manage scattered groups of volunteers.
A year ago, Snyder and her volunteers planted 50 coconut, palm, claw-blossomed wiliwili and beach heliotrope trees on Magic Island, part of Ala Moana Beach Park in Oahu.
In Waikiki, she argued for developers to save several large old banyan trees at a building site. In the end, after a protracted struggle with the developer, Snyder prevailed.
At her memorial service in September, the same developers sent
flowers.
John Talignani
Retired bartender and Army Veteran, 74, Staten Island, N.Y.; stepsons, Mitchell Zykofsky, Glenn Zykofsky. He was going to California to claim the body of his stepson, Alan Zykofsky, who had died in a car crash.
Since retiring in the mid-1990s, John Talignani had ordered anything and everything from television, cluttering his cramped apartment in Staten Island, N.Y., with an endless variety of appliances and memorabilia.
A retired bartender who schmoozed with the likes of Donald Trump and Dick Clark during his 20 years at a tony Manhattan steakhouse, Talignani just couldn't resist the pitches on QVC.
His home was filled with juicers, toasters, carpet shampoo, pasta makers, model cars, baseball memorabilia, a cavalry sword, chainsaws, and a pair of Woodstock tickets.
"The worst thing is, I don't know what to do with it," Talignani's stepson, Mitchell Zykofsky, said.
Like many bartenders, Talignani excelled at listening, to customers and to his family, which included three stepsons from his third and final marriage.
With his even temper, he took to his late wife Selma's children as if they were his own, practically raising them during the 20 years the couple was married.
Talignani hustled the youngest to tryouts with professional baseball teams, took pains to act as a sounding board for Mitchell, the oldest, when he wrestled with career decisions, and had boarded Flight 93 to head for California, where a car crash had just claimed the middle child.
"I credit most of whatever I've done to this day to his help," said Zykofsky, a New York City police sergeant.
The burly Talignani grew up playing stickball on the streets. He entered Japan after World War II with the Army, and never went to college.
He was crazy about the New York Mets and had a soft spot for women.
"Sometimes you go out on a date with a girl and say goodbye at the end of the date," his brother Armand recalled. "He used to say, 'Let's get married.' " But he was no wine-and-dine Casanova, his stepson said, noting the longevity of his final marriage.
Once, Zykofsky recalled, he visited the Palm Too restaurant, where his stepfather worked, to find Talignani talking to actor George C. Scott. When Talignani came home, though, he never crowed about the big shots he met.
His stories instead were always about the workaday regulars, whom he found more interesting.
Joseph DeLuca
Computer program designer, Pfizer Consumer Healthcare, 52, Succasunna, N.J.; parents, Joseph Sr. and Felicia; sister, Carol Hughes. He was beginning a vacation to the California wine country with Linda Gronlund.
Joe DeLuca doted on his bright yellow 4/4 Morgan like a proud parent. At various times he'd collected Roman coins and meteorites, and owned and raced both a Sunbeam Alpine and an MG Midget, but nothing compared to his 1957 version of the legendary car handmade in England.
Neither food nor drink ever crossed the car's restored black leather interior, but DeLuca's two stepgrandsons often did, albeit just one at a time, since it was a two-seater.
At 6 feet 3 inches and 235 pounds, he himself had to squeeze into the roadster, which he called "The Yellow Peril II," and when he wore his peaked British driving cap his head grazed the roof.
He compared Morgans to cats—he owned two felines, Fred the Twit and Dickens—because "they have their own personality."
For DeLuca, cars were a preoccupation. He raced them, ran clubs for them, drew them, wrote about them and talked about them. A board member of the northern New Jersey chapter of the Sports Car Club of America, he wrote and edited the group's newsletter. For years, that newsletter and other publications included his creation "The Adventures of Raymond the Cat," a single-panel cartoon about the travails of a road-rallying, windbreaker-wearing cat.
He could be dogged, too. Once, in the midst of a road rally, DeLuca's car lost its muffler. He drove 80 miles roundtrip to put a new muffler on and rejoin the race.
Born and raised with a younger sister in New Jersey, DeLuca earned a teacher's license, but a short stint as a junior high school teacher convinced him his future lay with computers. He'd begun working with computers in the early 1970s and taught himself well enough to earn jobs with several businesses before joining Pfizer Consumer Healthcare in Morris Plains, N.J. in 1977. He had worked most recently as a systems business consultant developing technology applications for commercial clients.
DeLuca was flying to San Francisco with his new girlfriend, Linda Gronlund, to tour vineyards, although his taste in wine, according to one friend, was "one step above Sutter Home."
But the couple, who first met at road rallies 20 years ago, had another side trip planned. They also were going to visit one of the country's three Morgan dealers.
Linda Gronlund
Manager, environmental compliance, BMW North America, 46, Greenwood Lake, N.Y.; mother, Doris; father, Gunnar; sister, Elsa Strong. After a brief business trip, she planned to celebrate her 47th birthday touring the California wine region with Joe DeLuca.
When she was 12, Linda Gronlund helped her father restore a car. As a high-school graduation present for her in 1972, the two built a maroon, fiberglass car on a Volkswagen chassis that looked like a Lamborghini but still had a VW engine. She called it the "Aardvark".
Gronlund went to college to be an oceanographer, but it was her love of cars that ultimately determined her career path. Although her first job after graduating American University's law school in 1983 was with a private firm, she soon joined Volvo's North American office in northern New Jersey. In 1990 she moved to BMW North America, eventually becoming manager of environmental compliance in the company's engineering department.
It was her ideal job, combining her active outdoor lifestyle—she was an accomplished sailor and scuba diver, car mechanic and gardener—with her love for cars.
One project of Gronlund's had been participating in the development of industry-wide use of a new air-conditioner coolant for cars instead of freon. She also was instrumental in promoting the use of hydrogen-fueled cars.
"She really liked that she was making a real difference," said Elsa Strong, her younger sister.
Quietly intense, Gronlund would lock onto a goal and bull her way to it, whether it was graduating magna cum laude from Southampton College of Long Island University, earning certification as an emergency medical technician and a karate brown belt, or searching for the perfect car. When she couldn't find a BMW Z3 roadster in the chestnut brown color she wanted, Gronlund bought a different one and had it painted.
She joined the Sports Car Club of America in 1980, and liked it so much that she attended a racing school and tried her hand in races at tracks around the Northeast. Gronlund spent so much time with the club that she convinced her mother to volunteer at races.
Gronlund first met Joe DeLuca during Sports Car Club events. Although they had known each other as friends for 15 years, they had begun dating just a few months ago. On Sept. 11 they headed to the West Coast; a tour of the California vineyards would follow Gronlund's business trip.
The highlight would be celebrating Gronlund's 47th birthday two days later.
LeRoy Homer
First Officer, United Airlines and Air Force Veteran, 36, Marlton, N.J.; Wife, Melodie; daughter, Laurel, 1. He was on duty in his sixth year at United.
The first time he met his wife, Melodie, United Airlines pilot LeRoy Homer Jr. flew out to see her. It was 1995, and Homer, who earned his first pilot's license at age 16, had just left active duty as a Captain in the Air Force. LeRoy continued to be an Air Force Reservist and a recruiter for the Air Force Academy.
They lived on opposite coasts—he in New Jersey, she in California - and had been carrying on a brief telephone relationship after being introduced by friends.
Homer had seen her picture, but she hadn't seen his. How, the former Melodie Thorpe wondered, would she recognize him on their 3,000-mile blind date? Easy, he told her: He'd be the one in the United uniform.
Eight months later, she moved to New Jersey. They became engaged on Valentine's Day in 1997 and married in 1998.
One of nine children, seven of them girls, Homer grew up on Long Island. If there was a baby shower at home, or any other event where men weren't invited, Homer's father would take him to McArthur Airport near their house, where they marveled at takeoffs and landings.
He attended the Air Force Academy, graduated in 1987 and specialized in flying C-141B Starlifters, mammoth heavy transport planes. During the Persian Gulf War, Homer flew them to the Middle East from bases in Europe.
Non-judgmental, easygoing and polite, Homer immediately put the men at ease in the 18th Military Airlift Squadron at McGuire Air Force Base in New Jersey.
He had always planned to leave the military and join a commercial airline. Homer was hired by United in 1995, following several of his old cronies from McGuire. After a brief stint as a flight engineer, he became a first officer on Boeing 757s.
From time to time, he and his fellow globe-hopping pilots would catch up with each other, meeting in Argentina one month, London the next. Homer exulted in discovering good restaurants and then leaving business cards from the establishments in his colleagues' mailboxes at home.
Sometimes, he and Melodie adventured together, packing in trips to Tahiti, Bora Bora, Greece, London, Germany, Canada and the Caribbean during their nearly six years together.
Whenever he was at the controls during those trips, he always had one question for her: "How was my landing?"
Hilda Marcin
Hilda Marcin was born Hildegard Zill in Schwedelbach, Germany on December 11, 1921. She was 8 years old when her parents left via Cologne on the SS Christopher Columbus for the United States, settling in New Jersey. Quickly Hildegard became known as Hilda.
Hilda was a hard worker all her life. During the Great Depression, Hilda scrubbed neighbors' front porches to help pay the mortgage on the family home. She described the worst day of her life as the attack on Pearl Harbor on December 7, 1941. Immediately Hilda stepped into a job handling the payroll at the federal government's massive shipyard and dry dock in Kearney, New Jersey. During World War II, while the shipyard operated seven days a week, so did she. She would watch out her office window in amazement at the battleships being christened and then sent off to war. Hilda took off only one day during those years to marry Edward Marcin, whom she met on a blind date and married six months later in February, 1943. There wasn't even time for a honeymoon. Her husband died in 1979; he was buried on their 36th wedding anniversary.
Hilda continued working throughout her whole life; she was a Fund Manager for a Union Office in Newark, New Jersey for many years. From 1987 until June 2001 she was a teaching aide at Tinc Road School in Mount Olive, New Jersey. In 14 years she had never taken a sick day. She worked with children with physical and learning disabilities and really enjoyed her work. At 79 years old Hilda was finally retiring. She found the east coast winters increasingly difficult and was moving to the west coast to live with her youngest daughter Carole. That morning her elder daughter Betty drove her to the airport where they shared some good laughs and tears. Hilda's plan was to visit New Jersey the following spring when her granddaughter Melissa was to receive a Master's Degree. She wanted to be there for the ceremony.
Hilda's daughter, Carole, said her mother was a strong woman and was very independent and organized. She had planned the move to California for the past year. She was a lovely, friendly lady who was admired by friends, family and co-workers. Carole said that although she only came to stay in California each summer she made many friends who looked forward to her return summer visits. She brightened many peoples' lives on both coasts, and is sorely missed by many, many good friends and family members.
Carole and Betty had planned a surprise 80th birthday party for their Mother in December 2001.
Nicole Miller
Nicole Carol Miller was born March 4, 1980, in San Jose, California. She lived all her life in San Jose, attending Allen Elementary School, Bret Harte Middle School, and Pioneer High School, where she graduated in 1998. At Pioneer High School, Nicole was a good student. She was on the championship varsity swimming/diving team in her freshman and sophomore years. She played softball all four years of high school, winning a softball college scholarship in her senior year. After high school, Nicole continued to be an athlete who loved to work out, hike, play softball, ride horses, and jog.
On the Dean's List at West Valley College in Saratoga, California while working her way through college, Nicole was finishing up her last eight units. She planned to transfer to California State University, Chico or California State University, San Jose in January 2002, where she was expecting to complete her Bachelor of Arts degree.
Nicole had a wonderful outlook on life. Her brilliant smile lit up entire rooms and her loving personality made everyone, including strangers, feel right at home. It would be natural for her to give her life for another's and that she did, bravely and heroically, along with the crew and passengers of United Airlines Flight 93 on September 11, 2001.
Nicole is survived by her father, David J. Miller; stepmother, Catherine M. Miller; mother, Cathy M. Stefani; stepfather, Wayne S. Stefani Sr.; and her siblings, Tiffney M. Miller deVries, David S. Miller, Danielle L. Miller, Wayne S. Stefani Jr., Joshua R. D. Tenorio, and Anthony D. Tenorio
"How I Love Thee My Nicole"
When the thoughts of you come into my mind
It's as if a breeze has passed through our rose garden and the sweet savory I smell
The taste of roses upon my tongue bring the sweetness of your memory to my mind
It comes upon me as the morning dew weighs the roses down
Smooth and pleasant are the thoughts of you, as the petals of a rose
And once again I am nourished with your love.
Dedicated to the memory of Nicole Carol Miller
Written by David James Miller, Nicole's Father, on September 11, 2001
Richard Guadagno
Richard Guadagno was manager of the Humboldt Bay National Wildlife Reserve in Eureka, California. He was a kind, gentle, peaceful man but he was also a trained law enforcer who had a very strong sense of right and wrong.
Rich believed that the law should be upheld. While out hiking with his sister Lori, a dog charged up the path without a leash. Rich shouted out "Whose dog is that?" and then whipped out his badge and wrote the offender a ticket. All the hikers nearby began applauding because the dog had been running riot. He once even chided his own mother for picking wild flowers!
Rich was a man who did things. He was a self-motivator. He owned an A-frame house overlooking the ocean in California and planted over 100 trees in his garden. On all of them he placed nametags so that people who visited could read about the different types of tree. He was into astronomy and had a telescope so he could observe the night sky. He taught himself taxidermy, built his own guitars, grew orchids in his kitchen and made the most amazing lasagne. He took up surfing, kayaking and photography. Rich always had a huge pot of wild flowers in the house. His favorites were sunflowers.
Rich wasn't just a serious wildlife enthusiast. He could also be a real goofball. He liked to sit and watch South Park for hours with his sister Lori, the two of them laughing out loud. Rich had been on the east coast attending his grandmother's birthday. After the party he and Lori sat on the front steps and played a game popular since childhood—cherry pip spitting. They sat, ate cherries and spit the pips as far as possible across the stones past the front porch.
Rich always had a love for animals. When he and Lori were very little they were banned from watching Lassie on TV because it would make him cry. As an adult in California he adored his dog Raven. He and his girlfriend Diqui would take Raven walking for hours. Diqui said he was the kind of guy you always felt safe with. Parents Jerry and Beatrice say, "He was a lovable guy and incredibly kind".
"On June 2, 2007 the 1000th National Recreation Trail on Basket Slough
(pronounced /slew/) NWR was renamed the Rich Guadagno Memorial National
Recreational Trail. Rich had helped design and construct it."
—U.S. Fish and Wildlife Website
To learn more about the Rich Guadagno Memorial
National Recreational Trail, you can go online at: http://www.americantrails.org/
To view more pictures and learn more about Rich Guadagno's
work for the Fish and Wildlife Service go online to: http://training.fws.gov/
Louis "Joey" Nacke II
Louis Joseph Nacke II was born on September 9th, 1959 in Richmond, VA. I can tell you that he was a father of two, eldest son and brother, and devoted husband, but it would do very little to convey our family's thoughts and feelings towards him. What seems more prudent is to give you insight into his life through the eyes of his youngest brother. "Joey", as he was known to family (Lou, to everyone else), was a series of dichotomies. He was the person who first let me sit behind the wheel of a car at the tender age of 12 while being guilty of rolling a car in a corn field. He was my protector and shield, even if he did knock one of my teeth out during an unfortunate snow football mishap. He was my pillar of strength while being one of the most sensitive men I've ever known. He was everything I wanted to be growing up while simultaneously demonstrating what not to do in various life events. He was to be the anchor to our family after our parents passed away even if he was the biggest antagonist. However, given all that, my brother was fiercely loyal to his family. He was also a man who would never back down from anyone or anything. Unfortunately, the most profound example of his mettle is also what took him away from me. I miss him dearly and I still want to grow up to be just like him.
Written by Dale Nacke
Flight 93 Heroes
- Christian Adams
- Lorraine Bay
- Todd Beamer
- Alan Beaven
- Mark Bingham
- Deora Bodley
- Sandy Bradshaw
- Marion Britton
- Thomas Burnett
- William Cashman
- Georgine Corrigan
- Patricia Cushing
- Jason Dahl
- Joseph DeLuca
- Patrick Driscoll
- Edward Felt
- Jane Folger
- Colleen Fraser
- Andrew Garcia
- Jeremy Glick
- Kristin White Gould
- Lauren Grandcolas
- Wanda Green
- Donald Greene
- Linda Gronlund
- Richard Guadagno
- Leroy Homer
- Toshiya Kuge
- CeeCee Lyles
- Hilda Marcin
- Waleska Martinez
- Nicole Miller
- Louis Nacke
- Donald Peterson
- Jean Peterson
- Mark Rothenberg
- Christine Snyder
- John Talignani
- Honor Elizabeth Wainio
- Deborah Welsh